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April 21, 2025
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Is swinging just for couples?
Is swinging just for couples? In a word, no. Swinging is popular with single people, married couples, and new couples. It doesn’t matter how you identify or what type of relationship you are in; there are many ways to get involved when it comes to ethical non-monogamy. This post will uncover why swinging isn’t just for couples and why many people make the wrong assumption about who is involved in the swinger scene.
I will also be sharing how you can get invo...
April 10, 2025
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You're Not a Prize: Navigating the Swinger Scene as a Confident Single Woman
Stepping into the swinger world as a single woman can feel like entering a whole new universe. It's a mix of excitement, curiosity, and, let's be honest, a dash of trepidation. You might wonder, "How do I handle the attention? How do I set boundaries? How do I just… be myself?"
I've been there. I've seen it. And I'm here to tell you, you are not a prize to be won. You are a woman with agency, and you deserve to ...
March 31, 2025
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How To Tell Someone You Like Swinging
This article isn’t going to tell you how to talk to your partner about starting swinging. Neither is it going to advise you on how to have that conversation.
I’m not going to sugarcoat the truth, and I’m not going to tell you what you want to hear.
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March 18, 2025
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20 Top Tips To Attract Genuine Swingers To Your Swinger Dating Profile
Here are my TOP TIPS to help you attract genuine swingers:
Create an Authentic Profile. What do I mean by an authentic profile? Here, I am referring to a profile that truly represents who you are and what you are all about. Authentic profiles are 60% swinger information and 40% about you as a person. They include a good mixture of pictures and are not overly explicit. I explain this further in How to create a Great Swing...
March 18, 2025
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How To Write A Great Swinger Dating App Profile
Recently, I've been conversing with my coaching clients about swinger dating apps. These conversations have ranged from which to use to what to include to which to avoid, and I wanted to make a piece of content where I share my top tips on How To Write A Great Swinger Dating App Profile with you.
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March 12, 2025
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When Should We Take The Next Step?
Hi Rosie, my wife and I have been together since we were 14, have become curious about being swingers. We have recently been to a swinger club in Spain a few times, and we both find it very exciting. We have only had sex with each other without anyone else, but we think we want to explore further with a threesome or other couples. How do we know we are ready for that? Carlos- Madrid
Hi Carlos, It's fantastic that you and your wife are exploring this new c...
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January 7, 2025
Author: Lauren Hayse
See Swinging Lifestyle Coach
For Better or Even Better
7 Lessons on Life & Love from a Non-Monogamist
Discover the candid, transformative journey of a relationship coach navigating life and love outside traditional boundaries. In this insightful guide, readers are invited into a world where transparency, emotional honesty, and vulnerability shape relationships—both monogamous and non-monogamous. With a unique blend of humor, personal anecdotes, and deep wisdom, this boo...
August 14, 2023
CNM4US Mission
This purpose of this website is to create a sex-positive space for people to explore consensual non-monogamy.
Education
Titilation
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March 24, 2024
Welcome to CNM4US!
Imagine a mashup between Facebook's social media features and Match.com's date matching features. Nude and erotic photos are allowed. The date matching features are oriented toward Consensual Non-Monogamy.
That's CNM4US. Well, except for all the negativity. Facebook can keep that. This site is heavily moderated.
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