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July 14, 2025
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Hi Rosie, I don’t feel I can be intimate with men other than my husband when swinging- help!
POV: You feel unsure of your involvement in the swinger lifestyle. You feel pressure to perform when you talk about the lifestyle to your partner. You don’t want to sign yourself up for something you are not 100% on board with!
Why? Sometimes, we find ourselves in overwhelming situations, and even if we are initially on board with something, we can soon lose sight of what we want to experience if...
June 4, 2025
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Everything You Need To Know About Swinger Dates- the good, the bad and the reality!
All of us have been on awkward and uninspiring dates, and nothing is worse than the two of you sitting there, avoiding making eye contact, idly fingering the menu and talking about the weather. A while ago, I went on a date with a guy who used a profile picture that was a much younger version of himself (I think this is catfishing?), and although the date was fun and we had some chemistry, I wasn’t feeling it...
April 28, 2025
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From Terrified to Trailblazer: My Unexpected Journey into the Swinger Scene
Ever wondered how someone becomes a "swinger expert"? Trust me, my path wasn't paved with instant confidence and effortless connections! In this raw and honest interview, I'm peeling back the curtain on my own unexpected dive into ethical non-monogamy and the swinger lifestyle. This content was taken from an interview I did recently with a journalist writing for a popular womens magazine here in the UK.
Could yo...
April 21, 2025
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Is swinging just for couples?
Is swinging just for couples? In a word, no. Swinging is popular with single people, married couples, and new couples. It doesn’t matter how you identify or what type of relationship you are in; there are many ways to get involved when it comes to ethical non-monogamy. This post will uncover why swinging isn’t just for couples and why many people make the wrong assumption about who is involved in the swinger scene.
I will also be sharing how you can get invo...
April 10, 2025
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You're Not a Prize: Navigating the Swinger Scene as a Confident Single Woman
Stepping into the swinger world as a single woman can feel like entering a whole new universe. It's a mix of excitement, curiosity, and, let's be honest, a dash of trepidation. You might wonder, "How do I handle the attention? How do I set boundaries? How do I just… be myself?"
I've been there. I've seen it. And I'm here to tell you, you are not a prize to be won. You are a woman with agency, and you deserve to ...
March 31, 2025
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How To Tell Someone You Like Swinging
This article isn’t going to tell you how to talk to your partner about starting swinging. Neither is it going to advise you on how to have that conversation.
I’m not going to sugarcoat the truth, and I’m not going to tell you what you want to hear.
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January 7, 2025
Author: Lauren Hayse
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For Better or Even Better
7 Lessons on Life & Love from a Non-Monogamist
Discover the candid, transformative journey of a relationship coach navigating life and love outside traditional boundaries. In this insightful guide, readers are invited into a world where transparency, emotional honesty, and vulnerability shape relationships—both monogamous and non-monogamous. With a unique blend of humor, personal anecdotes, and deep wisdom, this boo...
August 14, 2023
CNM4US Mission
This purpose of this website is to create a sex-positive space for people to explore consensual non-monogamy.
Education
Titilation
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March 24, 2024
Welcome to CNM4US!
Imagine a mashup between Facebook's social media features and Match.com's date matching features. Nude and erotic photos are allowed. The date matching features are oriented toward Consensual Non-Monogamy.
That's CNM4US. Well, except for all the negativity. Facebook can keep that. This site is heavily moderated.
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