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Here at Thiskindagirl, I want to bring you all the answers you are looking for. And how better to do this than a dedicated Swinger Lifestyle FAQ article? This article is a round-up of the most popular questions and topics that my followers send me on social media and by email. Get clued up and swinger smart before you get completely confused about the lifestyle! WHAT IS SWINGING? Swinging is a form of ethical non-monogamy, where sexual inhibitions are extended past the committed relationship ...

We feel our faces don't fit in the swinger lifestyle. Hi Rosie, First of all, we really love your videos. They have helped us to explore the swingers' lifestyle. We have a quick question about swingers clubs. We recently tried to join Le Boudoir in London, but they came back with this response. ...

Can A Relationship Be Open For Only One Person? The short answer is yes, but as with most things Non-Monogamy related, it isn’t as straightforward as that. Yes, a relationship can be open for only one person if you have a solid foundation to draw from and rules and boundaries that you follow. But unless you have honest conversation and understanding from both parties, this type of relationship won’t work. When I first started swinging, I was part of a couple, and my first experience and subse...

First Time At A Swingers Club Several of my followers requested this article on Instagram. So, being your swinger lifestyle guru, I felt it only fitting that I rise to the occasion. Although I have written articles about visiting a club for the first time, swinger club etiquette and dos and don’ts, what I haven’t written about, and what many of you are curious about, is what it is like walking into a club for the first time? How do you find the location of a club? And what can you expect to f...

What makes you an expert? But what makes you an expert? It's a fair question and one I've been asked a few times lately. The answer, like most things, is multifaceted. ...

ARE SWINGER FRIENDS WITH BENEFITS TOO GOOD TO BE TRUE? We all know what friends with benefits are. I’m sure at some point in your life, you have had one, or have been one, or maybe you are living your best FWB life right now? But when it comes to swinging and swinger relationships, do FWB still exist? And if so, where do you find them? I mean, truth be told, it all sounds pretty perfect! A swinger couple who you can play with, without fear of emotions getting caught up or complications? Are sw...

Ready to dive deeper into the world of ethical non-monogamy and connect with a like-minded community? The TKG Club is your all-access pass to everything ENM, hosted on CNM4US! It's the perfect place for you if: You're curious about any aspect of ENM, from cuckolding and swinging to exploring open relationships!  You're done with time-wasters and crave genuine connections!  ...

Do we have to DO anything when swinging? One question I hear frequently and can certainly relate to is: Do we have to DO anything when swinging? I remember when I first got involved in the lifestyle, and one of my biggest fears was having to do things that I wasn’t comfortable doing. And later, when I became a single female swinger, again, I was worried that I would feel pressure from couples, especially, to play with them. I wanted to make a piece of content that offers you answers from two p...

What Happens When A Couple Go From Monogamy to Ethical Non-Monogamy? Going from a previously monogamous relationship to a newly Ethically non-monogamous one is something that needs careful consideration, communication and compromise. When you are looking to explore Ethical Non-Monogamy, it can be hard to know where to begin and what might happen to your relationship. Very often the biggest question a couple has is ‘is this going to jeopardise our relationship? I understand what it is like, whi...

What Is It Like Seeing Your Partner With Someone Else? For many of us, seeing our partner with someone else is the stuff of our nightmares. Watching as they kiss, touch, and, well, get it on with another person (usually of the opposite sex) is, for the majority of couples, the one thing they are absolutely terrified of. Or are they? Are there, instead, some couples who actively enjoy watching their partner with someone else? And do all couples feel the same about seeing their dear beloved in t...