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How Common Is Swinging? When you think about swinging and sexual liberation, how far back do you go? In ancient history, there are a few examples of sexual promiscuity that you already may be familiar with. In Ancient Rome, Emperor Tiberius used to enjoy swimming with young male lovers. Messalina, the wife of Claudius, challenged the prostitutes of Rome to a competition to see how many men each could sleep with, in a single night. These examples, however, are merely folk law and modern swingin...

Can Single Women Attend Swinger Clubs? There are two reasons I wanted to write this post; firstly because I wrote an article recently titled 'Can Single Men Visit Swinger Clubs?' and why should they get all the advice? And secondly, I asked my followers to get in touch with their questions, and my DM inbox has been bursting with replies. I am, after all, here to answer all your swinger, relationship and lifestyle-related queries! So, if you are sitting comfortably, I shall begin. Dear thiski...

Can Single Men Visit Swinger Clubs? Welcome sexy single males to the world of swinger clubs! Before you strip off and dive in, read my top tips on how Single Men can visit swinger clubs and what you can do to boost your chances of success! Here are my quick 5 essential top tips: ...

The Swinging Paradigm: An Evaluation of the Marital and Sexual Satisfaction of Swingers Electronic Journal of Human Sexuality, Volume 12, January 23, 2009 By Edward M. Fernandes "The Swinging Paradigm" by Edward M. Fernandes provides an in-depth analysis of the swinging lifestyle, focusing on the marital and sexual satisfaction of swingers. The introduction highlights the development of Fernandes' interest in the topic, spurred by an article questioning whether family values can survive sexua...

Porn in Their Words: Female Leaders in the Adult Entertainment Industry Address Free Speech, Censorship, Feminism, Culture and the Mainstreaming of Adult Content Vanderbilt Journal of Entertainment & Technology Law Volume 9 Issue 2 - Winter 2006 This journal article "Porn in Their Words: Female Leaders in the Adult Entertainment Industry Address Free Speech, Censorship, Feminism, Culture, and the Mainstreaming of Adult Content" is a comprehensive exploration into the intersection of the adul...

In her memoir, “More,” Molly Roden Winter recounts the highs and lows of juggling an open marriage with work and child care. By Alexandra Alter For anyone prone to experiencing secondhand embarrassment, there’s a scene in Molly Roden Winter’s debut, “More: A Memoir of Open Marriage,” that should come with a warning. Winter is at her home in Brooklyn. She has just had sex with her boyfriend while her two children sleep upstairs. Her husband, Stewart, consented to her tryst, but feeling guilt...

A smart, sexy guide to embracing the repressed, tabooed, and often unwanted aspects of ourselves so we can discover our inner power and finally live the life we deserve. “We always get exactly what we want; but often, though we may not be aware of it, what we most want is dark—very dark.” Each of us has a dual nature: we are light (conscious) and dark (unconscious). The dark side of our personality—the “other,” the shadow side—is made up of what we think is our primitive, primal, negative impu...

A leading expert on human sexuality and author of the blog Sex and Psychology offers an unprecedented look at sexual fantasy based on the most comprehensive, scientific survey ever undertaken. What do Americans really want when it comes to sex? And is it possible for us to get what we want? Justin J. Lehmiller, one of the country's leading experts on human sexuality and author of the popular blog Sex and Psychology, has made it his career's ambition to answer these questions. He recently conclu...

"The Smart Girl's Guide to Polyamory: Everything You Need to Know About Open Relationships, Non-Monogamy, and Alternative Love" by Dedeker Winston is a comprehensive and insightful book that delves into the world of polyamory and non-monogamous relationships. Here's a review of the book: Overview Dedeker Winston's book serves as an informative guide, particularly aimed at women, though it's valuable for anyone interested in exploring polyamory. It covers a wide range of topics, from the basics...