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CNM4US Chat Features CNM4US chat is based on CometChat, an enterprise chat solution. CometChat has a rich and reliable feature set. To activate the chat feature, click on the the burgundy chat icon in the bottom-right corner of your browser window. Once opened, you will see icons at the bottom of your chat screen for Chats: conservations already started with other members or groups. Click on a chat to pickup where you left off. ...

Health at Every Size This is the HAES Manifesto from the book, "Health at Every Size". You can read more about this at the author's website: https://lindobacon.com/health-at-every-size-book/ The New Peace Movement We’re losing the war on obesity. Fighting fat has not made the fat go away. However, extensive “collateral damage” has resulted: Food and body preoccupation, self-hatred, eating disorders, weight cycling, weight discrimination, poor health. . . . Few of us are at peace with our bodi...

Criminal Background Checks: A Step Towards Safer Connections Many dating sites are experimenting with some type of background check. We are all struggling with finding ways to bring more trust into online dating system. Match.com invested over $1 million in Garbo--a non-invasive background check system. Because Garbo didn't ask too many questions about you, it also came up with so many false positives as to render it's assessments worthless. Match.com ended up abandoning their partnership with...

Don't Yuk Someone's Yum In a sex-positive environment, we want everyone to feel comfortable talking about the things that turn them on, as well as the things that don't. It's not necessary to put down someone else' preferences in order to communicate yours. Claiming to only be talking about how you feel is not sufficient to get you off the hook for a Community Guidelines Violation. Because this topic is somewhat fuzzy, I wanted to provide greater details regarding everyone's responsibility in...

Featured Member—What's That? See the yellow flag with the white diamond when you are searching for Members? That is the Featured Member flag. Featured Members also have yellow PINS on the Members Map.   How do you qualify to be Featured? ...

This is the summary of article taken from: https://www.shipspsychology.com.au If you like the summary, we encourage you to follow the link below to their site to read the entire article.   The Gist The article is written from a psychologist's perspective and aims to guide people who are interested in exploring non-monogamy but are unsure how to initiate that conversation with their partner. It stresses that both monogamous and non-monogamous relationships can be ethical and fulfilling. ...

What Happens to the Videos You Post Your Videos are only available on CNM4US. They are not published anywhere else. We've taken care of all the technical details for you. Just upload your video and we will modify it so that everyone can watch it, no matter what kind of device they have and no matter what type of connection they have. You must have a Verified account to upload videos. CNM4US.com uses Mux to transcode and display/deliver your videos. We do not store your videos on our servers....

For much of the 20th and 21st centuries, women’s sexuality was an uncharted territory in science, studied far less frequently—and far less seriously—than its male counterpart. That is, until Emily Nagoski’s Come As You Are, which used groundbreaking science and research to prove that the most important factor in creating and sustaining a sex life filled with confidence and joy is not what the parts are or how they’re organized but how you feel about them. In the years since the book’s initial...

"Poly Secure: Attachment, Trauma, and Consensual Non-Monogamy" by Jessica Fern is a game-changer for folks interested in or practicing polyamory or other forms of consensual non-monogamy (CNM). The book aims to fuse attachment theory with the dynamics of CNM relationships, providing a nuanced understanding of how people in such relationships can create secure attachments. Main Themes Attachment Theory: Jessica Fern delves into how our attachment styles (secure, anxious, avoidant, etc.) i...