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April 16, 2024
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Your Data Belongs to You
There's a saying, "If the service is free, you are the product." Or more accurately, your data is the product.
Facebook is free, meaning you don't have to pay monthly with your credit card. So, how do they make money? They make money from selling, lending, or leasing YOUR DATA.
Facebook makes approximately $300 per year from each person's data or $25 monthly. That's why you get to use Facebook for "Free."
Because CNM4US earns its revenue from subscription services, i...
April 14, 2024
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ThisKindaGirl on CNM4US
Many of you already know ThisKindaGirl, Rosie Kay. She's a well known vodcaster in the Lifestyle Community. She provides Lifestyle Coaching Services for couples and singles. If you are new to the Lifestyle community and need some help getting oriented or getting your bearings, you should contact ThisKindaGirl for some Lifestyle Coaching. CNM4US strongly recommends ThisKindaGirl, Rosie Kay, as a Lifestyle Coach.
New to the Lifestyle and need some help getting oriented...
April 14, 2024
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Our Mission
CNM4US champions a positive and inclusive approach to Consensual Non-Monogamy, striving to make it a socially accepted and respected lifestyle choice. Our mission is to create a welcoming and supportive platform where individuals and couples can explore and engage in CNM safely and joyously. We emphasize the importance of consent, respect, and communication, providing our community with tools and resources to enhance their relationships and sexual health.
We cater to a diverse audi...
April 8, 2024
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Managing Your Group
Has your Meet-n-Greet or play party grown so big that you need tools to manage it? Have you thought that maybe Evite is not the right tool for managing Events and RSVPs? Maybe instead of Evite, you'd like a place where people can talk openly about sex and even post photos and establish profiles?
CNM4US Groups to the rescue!
Manage Events and RSVPS in your own CNM4US Group. Here are the details on events.
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April 8, 2024
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Managing Your Page
If you are a CNM related business or organization, contact us for your own Page on the site. You must be a CNM related businesses that is sex-positive, inclusive and women oriented are accepted.
If you have an established business with an established audience, with an established customer base, then we will provide you with free account, but you will still be required to go through the standard verification process.
Pages are for Businesses and Organizations
Pages are mean...
April 8, 2024
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Tips on Making Videos
Read the with Community Guidelines
CNM4US encourages nude and erotic vidoes. Subjects are allowed to be completely nude and touching each other. However, they are not allowed to be sexually explicit. See the Community Guidelines to understand the rules around videos.
Minor violations will get a warning with directions to take the video down. Major violations will get violators banned from the site.
General Production Tips
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April 8, 2024
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Sea Mountain Inn Lifestyles Resort Spa
66540 San Marcus Rd, Desert Hot Springs, CA 92240
https://www.seamountaininn.com/
Taken from their Home Page
Reflect, relax, spa, enjoy the premier nude spa retreat in Southern California Sea Mountain Inn, Enjoy a whirlpool and contemplate the mountains above you – Relax in the sun all day and swim nude in a mineral water pool – Our curative mineral waters have been used for centuries as the most pure and healing in the world – Feel the 24-hour mineral ...
April 8, 2024
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Bonobo Network
Bay Area California
https://www.bonobonetwork.com
Taken from their Home Page
Bonobo Network is a community rooted in real-world and virtual events where people learn together – and from one another – about sexuality, pleasure, and relationships.
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April 8, 2024
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Tangerine's Dream
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April 8, 2024
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TwistSF
387 Bay St, San Francisco, CA 94133
https://www.twist-sf.com/
From the TwistSF Home Page
We invite you to Twist Private party!
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March 29, 2024
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The SwingRing Phone
The SwingRing Phone is the CNM4US version of audio-to-audio calling. Not a mobile phone call. Well, not exactly. You still use your mobile phone, you just don't use your mobile phone number.
Match.com has a similar feature which they have dubbed the MatchPhone. Only Match.com charges extra for this add-on feature.
It is one of the standard features of the CNM4US chat service included for all Verified members.
It's Super Simple
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March 29, 2024
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What is CNM4US?
A social media and dating site for the Consensually Non-monogamous.
Sex-positive
Inclusive
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March 27, 2024
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Welcome to Crystal's Corner, a groundbreaking podcast in which the curtains are drawn back to reveal the intricate dance of desire, trust, and love that defines cuckold and swinger relationships. Hosted by Crystal, a bold and insightful guide, we delve deep into the hidden realms of consensual non-monogamy, exploring the nuanced dynamics that make these alternative lifestyles viable and thriving for countless couples.
Each episode of Crystal's Corner is a journey into the hearts and minds of th...
March 24, 2024
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So, you've been pondering Consensual Non-Monogamy. Maybe you've been purusing some of the articles, blog posts and videos on CNM4US.com. You are starting to wonder if this might be the right thing for you and your partner. And then, you ask yourself, "How on Earth do I bring it up with my partner?”
Here are some tips on navigating this conversation, keeping it positive, and hopefully, finding a new dynamic that works for both of you.
Set the Stage: This isn't a conversation to have in passi...
March 24, 2024
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This is part 2 of the followng 3 part series.
Consensual Non-Monogamy and Other Variations
Introducing Your Partner to Consensual Non-Monogamy
You're ready to try the Lifestyle--Now what?
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March 24, 2024
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You and Your Partner Have Decided to Give Swinging a Try
How do you find like-minded couples? Should you approach your flirtatious friends?
Many of us know people who relish communicating in suggestive innuendos and adult-rated double entendres. Why say something in a normal, everyday tone when you could titillate, or even shock, your audience with risqué subtexts? These folks love to bring the spice to their social interactions. Are they daring you to acknowledge their sexual gist? Maybe you'...
March 24, 2024
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This is part 1 of the followng 3 part series.
Consensual Non-Monogamy and Other Variations
Introducing Your Partner to Consensual Non-Monogamy
You're ready to try the Lifestyle--Now what?
...
March 24, 2024
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This is part 3 of the followng 3 part series.
Consensual Non-Monogamy and Other Variations
Introducing Your Partner to Consensual Non-Monogamy
You're ready to try the Lifestyle--Now what?
...
March 24, 2024
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Nearly 60% of men fantasize about seeing their wives having sexual pleasure with another man. Approximately 30% of women have similar feelings about their husbands.
Compersion is the term most frequently associated with this phenomenon. However, Candaulism is a lesser-known term related to this phenomenon.
There is some overlap between Compersion and Candaulism. Compersion is more about the relationship, while Candualism is more about sexual activity.
Compersion
Compersion is the joy we expe...
March 24, 2024
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CNM4US is Open to the Public!
CNM4US is a
Social Media and Dating Site for the Consensually Non-Monogamous
Sex-positive
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March 24, 2024
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Welcome to CNM4US!
Imagine a mashup between Facebook's social media features and Match.com's date matching features. Nude and erotic photos are allowed. The date matching features are oriented toward Consensual Non-Monogamy.
That's CNM4US. Well, except for all the negativity. Facebook can keep that. This site is heavily moderated.
Dating Site
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March 24, 2024
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CNM4US Events - Lifestyle Networking Made Easy
CNM4US members can view Events on the CNM4US worldwide Event Map. This map is always centered on the CNM4US member's Postal Code or Alternate Address (if they are traveling).
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March 24, 2024
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Dear Members, Post Your Suggestions Here
We are not perfect. We have not thought of everything. We have likely excluded some people, or at least failed to adequately include and represent them. Maybe we've framed something innappropriately, or even hurtfully.
And for our many shortcomings, we apologize!
We will read all suggestions. That's not a promise to act on every suggestion.
However, if suggestions are presented in a thoughtful, and well written manner, we are more likely to seriously ...
March 20, 2024
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March 20, 2024
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MakeLoveNotPorn
When Cindy Gallop launched MakeLoveNotPorn at TED in 2009, and in 2013, turned it into the world’s first user-generated, human-curated social sex video-sharing platform to promote consent, communication, good sexual values, and good sexual behavior, she made it her mission to end rape culture, by doing something very simple (that nobody else is doing).
“I wanted to show everybody how wonderful great, consensual, communicative sex is in the real world, how to role-model good se...
March 20, 2024
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Independently produced erotic videos & sex stories
All my beautiful erotica contains original content for adults only, created and produced responsibly and ethically for my erotic site. Only at FrolicMe can you view my full collection, a platform dedicated to healthy sexuality. This is my content, product, vision and style. I boldly like to consider it the sexiest online dedicated erotic site designed for men, women and couples. I wanted to disrupt the world of sex and focus on the joys of fema...
March 20, 2024
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The Aquafit Intimate product line includes the Aquafit PRÉ and Aquafit BIO, designed to address various intimate wellness concerns. The Aquafit PRÉ is a water-based, all-natural Intimate Gel Stick® aimed at strengthening pelvic floor muscles, restoring vaginal muscle tonus, enhancing elasticity, and relieving pain during sex. It contains hyaluronic acid and vitamin B3 for deep hydration and soothing sensitive vaginal tissue. The Aquafit BIO, also water-based and all-natural, focuses on r...
March 20, 2024
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Lilly Sparks, founder and CEO of afterglow
“At some point in my personal life, despite having a loving partner, I wasn’t even orgasming. I felt alone and embarrassed. I didn’t know any resources out there. The porn I found wasn’t the kind of sex I wanted to have. This is a common experience for so many women—not feeling sexy or in the mood. Prioritizing pleasure is difficult when we’re always trying to please others. I realized I needed to create a space for YES—a place that inspires great sex...
Featured Blogs
January 7, 2025
Author: Lauren Hayse
See Swinging Lifestyle Coach
For Better or Even Better
7 Lessons on Life & Love from a Non-Monogamist
Discover the candid, transformative journey of a relationship coach navigating life and love outside traditional boundaries. In this insightful guide, readers are invited into a world where transparency, emotional honesty, and vulnerability shape relationships—both monogamous and non-monogamous. With a unique blend of humor, personal anecdotes, and deep wisdom, this boo...
August 14, 2023
CNM4US Mission
This purpose of this website is to create a sex-positive space for people to explore consensual non-monogamy.
Education
Titilation
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March 24, 2024
Welcome to CNM4US!
Imagine a mashup between Facebook's social media features and Match.com's date matching features. Nude and erotic photos are allowed. The date matching features are oriented toward Consensual Non-Monogamy.
That's CNM4US. Well, except for all the negativity. Facebook can keep that. This site is heavily moderated.
Dating Site
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