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Life is a Game of Risk Management All our lives are one prolonged risk management exercise. Most of us could live to 90 or more if we never took risks, ate anything delicious, went outside, or had fun. On the other hand, those who are bad at risk management are more likely to suffer painful or debilitating consequences or even premature demise. They might even earn a Darwin Award. Risk management is a game of odds. Sometimes, the ball takes an unexpected bounce. People who are great at risk ma...

Freely given. Consenting is a choice you make without pressure, manipulation, or under the influence of drugs or alcohol. Reversible. Anyone can change their mind about what they feel like doing, anytime. Even if you’ve done it before, and even if you’re both naked in bed. Informed. You can only consent to something if you have the full story. For example, if someone says they’ll use a condom and then they don’t, there isn’t full consent. Enthusiastic. When it comes to sex, you should o...

Hi Rosie, what is soft swinging?    Today, I have decided to create content that often gets overlooked when discussing the lifestyle: soft swinging. In this article, I will discuss soft swinging, why a couple might practice it, and how it is viewed in the adult lifestyle world. Are couples who practice soft swinging less 'useful' than those who 'go all the way'? And are there some couples or individuals who only ever soft-swap?    Turn those lights down low and settle in. It's time to talk a...

Non-Monogamy & Newbie drama! He did what?!? Eyes roll. Jaws drop. Quick, please--somebody fetch my popcorn. Cuz, here we go again! I will tell you the number one cause of newbie drama, hurt feelings, and broken relationships. Lack of communication! But you didn't even know what you were supposed to communicate about, which is what I will explain to you right now. Types of Non-Monogamy ...

CNM4US Notes Finding the right matches in the lifestyle is a numbers game. Network, communicate, discuss. Wait, did we talk to those people already? I can't remember what they said. Every profile has a Notes tab where you can leave notes for yourself. Only you can see your notes. The profile you left it on cannot see your notes. Other members cannot see your notes. Only you can see your notes. If there's something important you need to remember about a profile, leave a note for yourself to ...

Welcome to this Exciting Collaboration! Greetings TKG Club  members. CNM4US welcomes you to the site! ThisKindaGirl will be offering its members lifestyle dating features via CNM4US. CNM4US provides social media and dating features for the lifestyle community. Think a mashup between facebook and match.com but for swingers. ThisKindaGirl will make their exclusive content available on their new private group TKG - Premium on CNM4US. ThisKindaGirl will continue to make their exclusivie conten...

Testimonials Testimonials are a great way to meet new people. We naturally seek the opinions of people we know and trust, and the lifestyle is no different. That's why CNM4US provides a Testimonials feature on every Profile.  How do Testimonials Work? ...

The CNM4US Marketplace Verified members can sell items in the Marketplace. We currently support payment service providers PayPal and Stripe. If you have an account with one of these PSPs, you can enter your PSP information in your CNM4US Account Settings and start selling items in the Marketplace.  What Can We Sell? You can sell tangible or intangible items.   ...

SwingRing and The 10-minute Touch Base Call The lifestyle journey is fun, exciting, sexy .... and full of challenges. Along the way, you will encounter fakes, flakes, and people who are pondering their options but are still not ready to commit. All of this can make for a lot of disappointing meetings. People fail to show up. People show up but don't look anything like their photos. One person of the couple is super excited to meet you and their partner appears confused about why you are meeti...

The Need for Privacy Some folks are totally open about their participation in the Lifestyle. They want to know what rings or jewelry they can wear to signal to other swingers. They are happy to wear a t-shirt with a giant upside-down pineapple. They don't care who knows. They have no fears. Some people have good reasons to keep their lifestyle habits private. Their conservative family or church community might disown them. They might get fired. If they are active military personnel, they might...

Your Data Belongs to You There's a saying, "If the service is free, you are the product." Or more accurately, your data is the product. Facebook is free, meaning you don't have to pay monthly with your credit card. So, how do they make money? They make money from selling, lending, or leasing YOUR DATA. Facebook makes approximately $300 per year from each person's data or $25 monthly. That's why you get to use Facebook for "Free." Because CNM4US earns its revenue from subscription services, i...

ThisKindaGirl on CNM4US Many of you already know ThisKindaGirl, Rosie Kay. She's a well known vodcaster in the Lifestyle Community. She provides Lifestyle Coaching Services for couples and singles. If you are new to the Lifestyle community and need some help getting oriented or getting your bearings, you should contact ThisKindaGirl for some Lifestyle Coaching. CNM4US strongly recommends ThisKindaGirl, Rosie Kay, as a Lifestyle Coach. New to the Lifestyle and need some help getting oriented...

Our Mission CNM4US champions a positive and inclusive approach to Consensual Non-Monogamy, striving to make it a socially accepted and respected lifestyle choice. Our mission is to create a welcoming and supportive platform where individuals and couples can explore and engage in CNM safely and joyously. We emphasize the importance of consent, respect, and communication, providing our community with tools and resources to enhance their relationships and sexual health. We cater to a diverse audi...

Managing Your Group Has your Meet-n-Greet or play party grown so big that you need tools to manage it? Have you thought that maybe Evite is not the right tool for managing Events and RSVPs? Maybe instead of Evite, you'd like a place where people can talk openly about sex and even post photos and establish profiles? CNM4US Groups to the rescue! Manage Events and RSVPS in your own CNM4US Group. Here are the details on events. ...

Managing Your Page If you are a CNM related business or organization, contact us for your own Page on the site. You must be a CNM related businesses that is sex-positive, inclusive and women oriented are accepted. If you have an established business with an established audience, with an established customer base, then we will provide you with free account, but you will still be required to go through the standard verification process. Pages are for Businesses and Organizations Pages are mean...

Tips on Making Videos Read the with Community Guidelines CNM4US encourages nude and erotic vidoes. Subjects are allowed to be completely nude and touching each other. However, they are not allowed to be sexually explicit. See the Community Guidelines to understand the rules around videos. Minor violations will get a warning with directions to take the video down. Major violations will get violators banned from the site. General Production Tips ...

Sea Mountain Inn Lifestyles Resort Spa 66540 San Marcus Rd, Desert Hot Springs, CA 92240 https://www.seamountaininn.com/ Taken from their Home Page Reflect, relax, spa, enjoy the premier nude spa retreat in Southern California Sea Mountain Inn, Enjoy a whirlpool and contemplate the mountains above you – Relax in the sun all day and swim nude in a mineral water pool – Our curative mineral waters have been used for centuries as the most pure and healing in the world – Feel the 24-hour mineral ...

Bonobo Network Bay Area California https://www.bonobonetwork.com Taken from their Home Page Bonobo Network is a community rooted in real-world and virtual events where people learn together – and from one another – about sexuality, pleasure, and relationships. ...

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