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By March 14, 2024
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RECONNECTING AFTER SWINGING Aftercare is a term we usually associate with BDSM relationships, where the submissive partner is cared for by the dominant partner, as they transition from their roles as submissive and dominant back to Jane and Pete from Croydon. Aftercare, or reconnecting, is crucial and should never be ignored. I believe so strongly about the importance of reconnecting after swinging, that I am going to dedicate a whole post to this intimate ritual act. So as always, slip into so...
General Education

By March 14, 2024
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Male Insecurities And Swinging- Help! I Can’t Get Hard! Recently, I received a question from one of my male followers, who wanted to ask for my thoughts on male sexual performance, and how did I feel about it when a guy loses his erection during a swingers party? Could I share any insight into how men could deal with this and how does it make women feel? Was there a right or wrong way to deal with it? Is there any ‘Erectile Disfunction Etiquette’ that should be followed? There’s more to it than...
General Education

By March 14, 2024
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You have been chatting with another couple online, and perhaps you have had a swinger first date where you guys have discussed your expectations, limits and kinks. You have all gotten to know one another, and you like what you see! It’s only natural that you then want to meet up and turn all your fantasies into realities! Here are a few of my top tips for swinging with another couple: It would be best if you established where it is acceptable to orgasm before you orgasm! You also should ask...
General Education

By March 14, 2024
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Can I enjoy swinging if I am naturally shy? Can I let you into a secret? Lean close, and I’ll whisper it in your ear. I’m naturally a shy introvert! Really?! I can hear you asking really?! This girl with all the savvy swinger know-how and the smart mouth is shy? Yep! I’m afraid so! But have I let this shyness hold me back from swinging? No! Have I learnt to overcome my shyness and have a great time when swapping partners? yes! ...
General Education

By March 14, 2024
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Different Types Of Swingers we all have our own ideas as to what makes sex great! Sex is as unique as the person having it. What makes YOU tick is exclusive and reserved only for you. Yes, we may enjoy something similar to others or have shared fantasies and desires, however, the emotions, the sensations and the particular way that your body responds to sex is deeply personal. We may have wants and desires that we share, but only we know our true comfort levels. There is no right or wrong way...
General Education

By March 14, 2024
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Body Confidence When Swinging. Recently, I was discussing body confidence with one of my friends, A, who’s a single girl. Although A isn’t a swinger, she’s quite curious about the lifestyle and swinger scene, and I told her I’d take her with me to a club that was suited to her particular fetish when they reopen. She confided in me that although she is keen to attend, she doesn’t feel body positive and confident. I assured her she had nothing to worry about, but this got me thinking, and so, I gi...
General Education

By March 14, 2024
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Having an open relationship, talking about it honestly, truthfully, and showing vulnerability to your partner, comes from a place of love. Wanting to keep your existing relationship intact and find a solution that suits both of you, without jeopardising the life you have built together, that's love. Let’s talk about open relationships. Have you heard any of the following statements? That’s where one of you gets to cheat, and the other person has no say in it, right? ...
General Education

By February 28, 2024
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What Is Being A Swinger Like? I have been in the swinger Lifestyle for over 10 years now, so I would like to think that I have a pretty solid understanding of what being in the scene is all about. Over the last ten plus years, I have met both amazing swingers and awful ones. I have been in situations that have not gone as planned, met some really creepy individuals, had some underwhelming experiences, but on the whole, its been an absolute pleasure; after all, I’ve been doing it, and doing it ...
General Education

By February 28, 2024
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Is Swinging Cheating? Many people ask this question, and for good reason. If you type swinging into Google, cheating and swinging are displayed as popular topics. It is easy to see why people might associate swinging with cheating, as we are talking about having sexual intercourse outside of your relationship. First, we have to establish what exactly cheating is and why men and women view it differently. Before we get started discussing swinging and cheating, here are my top tips on avoiding c...
General Education

By February 28, 2024
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How Does The Swinger Lifestyle Work? Hi Rosie, how does the swinger lifestyle work? Is it best to go to a club or meet people in private? Is it like a free-for-all, or is it more personal than this? We have no idea what to expect but are curious. When I received this question, How Does The Swinger Lifestyle Work, I knew I would enjoy diving into it and dissecting it further. Banishing the stigma associated with the lifestyle and challenging common misconceptions people have is one reason I...
General Education

By February 28, 2024
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How Common Is Swinging? When you think about swinging and sexual liberation, how far back do you go? In ancient history, there are a few examples of sexual promiscuity that you already may be familiar with. In Ancient Rome, Emperor Tiberius used to enjoy swimming with young male lovers. Messalina, the wife of Claudius, challenged the prostitutes of Rome to a competition to see how many men each could sleep with, in a single night. These examples, however, are merely folk law and modern swingin...
General Education

By February 28, 2024
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Can Single Women Attend Swinger Clubs? There are two reasons I wanted to write this post; firstly because I wrote an article recently titled 'Can Single Men Visit Swinger Clubs?' and why should they get all the advice? And secondly, I asked my followers to get in touch with their questions, and my DM inbox has been bursting with replies. I am, after all, here to answer all your swinger, relationship and lifestyle-related queries! So, if you are sitting comfortably, I shall begin. Dear thiski...
General Education

By February 28, 2024
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Can Single Men Visit Swinger Clubs? Welcome sexy single males to the world of swinger clubs! Before you strip off and dive in, read my top tips on how Single Men can visit swinger clubs and what you can do to boost your chances of success! Here are my quick 5 essential top tips: ...
Journal Article

By February 25, 2024
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The Swinging Paradigm: An Evaluation of the Marital and Sexual Satisfaction of Swingers Electronic Journal of Human Sexuality, Volume 12, January 23, 2009 By Edward M. Fernandes "The Swinging Paradigm" by Edward M. Fernandes provides an in-depth analysis of the swinging lifestyle, focusing on the marital and sexual satisfaction of swingers. The introduction highlights the development of Fernandes' interest in the topic, spurred by an article questioning whether family values can survive sexua...
Journal Article

By February 25, 2024
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Porn in Their Words: Female Leaders in the Adult Entertainment Industry Address Free Speech, Censorship, Feminism, Culture and the Mainstreaming of Adult Content Vanderbilt Journal of Entertainment & Technology Law Volume 9 Issue 2 - Winter 2006 This journal article "Porn in Their Words: Female Leaders in the Adult Entertainment Industry Address Free Speech, Censorship, Feminism, Culture, and the Mainstreaming of Adult Content" is a comprehensive exploration into the intersection of the adul...
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By February 2, 2024
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In her memoir, “More,” Molly Roden Winter recounts the highs and lows of juggling an open marriage with work and child care. By Alexandra Alter For anyone prone to experiencing secondhand embarrassment, there’s a scene in Molly Roden Winter’s debut, “More: A Memoir of Open Marriage,” that should come with a warning. Winter is at her home in Brooklyn. She has just had sex with her boyfriend while her two children sleep upstairs. Her husband, Stewart, consented to her tryst, but feeling guilt...
Relationship Talk

By December 29, 2023
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Books

By December 26, 2023
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A smart, sexy guide to embracing the repressed, tabooed, and often unwanted aspects of ourselves so we can discover our inner power and finally live the life we deserve. “We always get exactly what we want; but often, though we may not be aware of it, what we most want is dark—very dark.” Each of us has a dual nature: we are light (conscious) and dark (unconscious). The dark side of our personality—the “other,” the shadow side—is made up of what we think is our primitive, primal, negative impu...
Books

By December 26, 2023
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A leading expert on human sexuality and author of the blog Sex and Psychology offers an unprecedented look at sexual fantasy based on the most comprehensive, scientific survey ever undertaken. What do Americans really want when it comes to sex? And is it possible for us to get what we want? Justin J. Lehmiller, one of the country's leading experts on human sexuality and author of the popular blog Sex and Psychology, has made it his career's ambition to answer these questions. He recently conclu...
Books

By December 2, 2023
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"The Smart Girl's Guide to Polyamory: Everything You Need to Know About Open Relationships, Non-Monogamy, and Alternative Love" by Dedeker Winston is a comprehensive and insightful book that delves into the world of polyamory and non-monogamous relationships. Here's a review of the book: Overview Dedeker Winston's book serves as an informative guide, particularly aimed at women, though it's valuable for anyone interested in exploring polyamory. It covers a wide range of topics, from the basics...
Journal Article

By December 2, 2023
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Author: Terence H. Hull PhD Terence H. Hull PhD (2008) Sexual Pleasure and Wellbeing, International Journal of Sexual Health, 20:1-2, 133-145, DOI: 10.1080/19317610802157234 Overview The article discusses the complex relationship between sexual pleasure and overall wellbeing, highlighting the challenges in integrating sexual pleasure into the broader sexual health agenda. It emphasizes the need for a deeper understanding and recognition of sexual pleasure as a crucial aspect of holistic healt...
Journal Article

By December 2, 2023
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Authors: Bente Træen & Frode Thuen Bente Træen & Frode Thuen (2022) Non-consensual and Consensual Non-monogamy in Norway, International Journal of Sexual Health, 34:1, 65-80, DOI: 10.1080/19317611.2021.1947931 Overview The study explores the experiences of Norwegians with both non-consensual and consensual non-monogamy. It aims to provide insights into how these practices are related to relationship intimacy and attitudes towards sex and sexuality. Methodology ...
Books

By November 28, 2023
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"The State of Affairs: Rethinking Infidelity" by Esther Perel offers a nuanced examination of infidelity in relationships. Perel, a respected couples therapist, presents a controversial perspective that infidelity can ultimately be beneficial for relationships. This does not mean that she advocates for infidelity; rather, she explores how affairs can compel partners to closely reevaluate their attitudes about love, commitment, and sex. The book is lauded for its insightful and balanced approach...
Books

By November 28, 2023
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"Mating in Captivity: Unlocking Erotic Intelligence" by Esther Perel is a profound exploration of the intricate relationship between domesticity and sexual desire. Perel, a renowned therapist, delves into the paradoxical union of these two aspects and offers guidance on rekindling passion in long-term relationships. The book is celebrated for its insightful and counterintuitive approach to modern relationships. Perel's expertise in couples therapy informs her exploration of maintaining desire a...
Books

By November 28, 2023
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"Opening Up" is a comprehensive guide on non-monogamous relationships, written by Tristan Taormino, a well-known author and educator on sexuality. The book is often recommended for its practical advice, in-depth research, and inclusive approach to various forms of non-monogamous relationships. Taormino combines personal anecdotes, interviews with people in open relationships, and practical advice to provide a thorough overview of the subject. Key topics covered in the book include: Differen...
Books

By November 28, 2023
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"Feminist Trauma Theologies: Body, Scripture & Church in Critical Perspective," edited by Karen O’Donnell and Katie Cross, is a groundbreaking collection that explores the intersection of trauma, theology, and feminist perspectives. This compilation is significant in its approach to trauma theology, a field that acknowledges the enduring impact of traumatic experiences and seeks to integrate these experiences within theological discourse. The book is described as a revelatory journey, sometimes...
Books

By November 28, 2023
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"Nadia Bolz-Weber's book *Shameless: A Sexual Reformation* is a provocative and insightful critique of traditional Christian teachings on sexuality. Bolz-Weber, a former pastor, draws from her personal experiences, as well as those of her friends and congregants, to challenge and reformulate Christian perspectives on sex, gender, and relationships. The book is described as a mix of memoir and call to action. Bolz-Weber's critique is grounded in biblical texts and the perspectives of both early ...
Books

By November 28, 2023
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Linda Kay Klein's book, "Pure: Inside the Evangelical Movement That Shamed a Generation of Young Women and How I Broke Free," delves into the consequences of purity culture within evangelical Christianity, particularly its impact on girls and young women. The book is described as a contentious debut, blending Klein's personal experiences with a broader exploration of evangelical purity culture. Klein reflects on her upbringing as a conservative Evangelical Christian and the sexual shaming she e...
Books

By November 28, 2023
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"Burnout: The Secret to Unlocking the Stress Cycle," authored by sisters Emily Nagoski, Ph.D., and Amelia Nagoski, D.M.A., is a comprehensive exploration of the phenomena of burnout, particularly focusing on how it affects women. The book presents burnout as a condition with three primary components: emotional exhaustion (the fatigue from caring too much for too long), depersonalization (the depletion of empathy, caring, and compassion), and a decreased sense of accomplishment (a feeling of futi...
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By October 19, 2023
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