By June 17, 2024
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Rejection? Or just busy?   Hi Rosie, I am a single woman in the swinger lifestyle and I have been part of the scene for around 6 months. I have attended a social event here in my hometown and spoke to a few couples online.   Two weeks ago, I had my first meeting with a couple. We have all been getting along fine, and we chat in a group chat every other day, but over the last few days, I have noticed that their responses have become less frequent, and they seem less engaged than they were be...
By June 13, 2024
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What if I can’t get it up?   Hi Rosie, I am a 45-year-old single man who is new to the scene. I can't wait to attend my first event and play with couples, but what if I can’t get hard? Is this normal in the lifestyle?   Signed, excited but anxious, Berlin, Germany ...
By June 13, 2024
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It is okay to just watch? Hi Rosie, I'm not sure if my question is a common one, but I thought you might be able to offer me some advice on it as I'm not sure who to talk to. My wife and I like the thought of going to a swingers club, and we regularly talk about the experiences we might have and also share our fantasies. Although we want to play with a couple, we are also quite nervous about it- the thought of completely swapping terrifies us, and we were wondering, can we watch in a swingers ...
By June 3, 2024
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20 TOP TIPS TO ATTRACT GENUINE SWINGERS TO YOUR SWINGER DATING PROFILE Attracting genuine swingers online involves: Creating a trustworthy and appealing profile. Engaging respectfully with the Community. ...
By May 14, 2024
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Hi Rosie, what is soft swinging?    Today, I have decided to create content that often gets overlooked when discussing the lifestyle: soft swinging. In this article, I will discuss soft swinging, why a couple might practice it, and how it is viewed in the adult lifestyle world. Are couples who practice soft swinging less 'useful' than those who 'go all the way'? And are there some couples or individuals who only ever soft-swap?    Turn those lights down low and settle in. It's time to talk a...
By May 8, 2024
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Non-Monogamy & Newbie drama! He did what?!? Eyes roll. Jaws drop. Quick, please--somebody fetch my popcorn. Cuz, here we go again! I will tell you the number one cause of newbie drama, hurt feelings, and broken relationships. Lack of communication! But you didn't even know what you were supposed to communicate about, which is what I will explain to you right now. Types of Non-Monogamy ...
By March 24, 2024
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This is part 2 of the followng 3 part series. Consensual Non-Monogamy and Other Variations Introducing Your Partner to Consensual Non-Monogamy You're ready to try the Lifestyle--Now what? ...
By March 24, 2024
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You and Your Partner Have Decided to Give Swinging a Try How do you find like-minded couples? Should you approach your flirtatious friends? Many of us know people who relish communicating in suggestive innuendos and adult-rated double entendres. Why say something in a normal, everyday tone when you could titillate, or even shock, your audience with risqué subtexts? These folks love to bring the spice to their social interactions. Are they daring you to acknowledge their sexual gist? Maybe you'...
By March 24, 2024
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This is part 1 of the followng 3 part series. Consensual Non-Monogamy and Other Variations Introducing Your Partner to Consensual Non-Monogamy You're ready to try the Lifestyle--Now what? ...
By March 24, 2024
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This is part 3 of the followng 3 part series. Consensual Non-Monogamy and Other Variations Introducing Your Partner to Consensual Non-Monogamy You're ready to try the Lifestyle--Now what? ...