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By April 28, 2025
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From Terrified to Trailblazer: My Unexpected Journey into the Swinger Scene   Ever wondered how someone becomes a "swinger expert"? Trust me, my path wasn't paved with instant confidence and effortless connections! In this raw and honest interview, I'm peeling back the curtain on my own unexpected dive into ethical non-monogamy and the swinger lifestyle. This content was taken from an interview I did recently with a journalist writing for a popular womens magazine here in the UK.    Could yo...
Relationships

By April 21, 2025
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Is swinging just for couples?   Is swinging just for couples? In a word, no. Swinging is popular with single people, married couples, and new couples. It doesn’t matter how you identify or what type of relationship you are in; there are many ways to get involved when it comes to ethical non-monogamy. This post will uncover why swinging isn’t just for couples and why many people make the wrong assumption about who is involved in the swinger scene.   I will also be sharing how you can get invo...
Single Women

By April 10, 2025
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You're Not a Prize: Navigating the Swinger Scene as a Confident Single Woman   Stepping into the swinger world as a single woman can feel like entering a whole new universe. It's a mix of excitement, curiosity, and, let's be honest, a dash of trepidation. You might wonder, "How do I handle the attention? How do I set boundaries? How do I just… be myself?"   I've been there. I've seen it. And I'm here to tell you, you are not a prize to be won. You are a woman with agency, and you deserve to ...
General Education

By March 31, 2025
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How To Tell Someone You Like Swinging   This article isn’t going to tell you how to talk to your partner about starting swinging. Neither is it going to advise you on how to have that conversation.   I’m not going to sugarcoat the truth, and I’m not going to tell you what you want to hear. ...
Using this Website

By March 18, 2025
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20 Top Tips To Attract Genuine Swingers To Your Swinger Dating Profile Here are my TOP TIPS to help you attract genuine swingers: Create an Authentic Profile. What do I mean by an authentic profile? Here, I am referring to a profile that truly represents who you are and what you are all about. Authentic profiles are 60% swinger information and 40% about you as a person. They include a good mixture of pictures and are not overly explicit. I explain this further in How to create a Great Swing...
Lifestyle

By March 18, 2025
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How To Write A Great Swinger Dating App Profile   Recently, I've been conversing with my coaching clients about swinger dating apps. These conversations have ranged from which to use to what to include to which to avoid, and I wanted to make a piece of content where I share my top tips on How To Write A Great Swinger Dating App Profile with you.   From what I've seen ...
Couples

By March 12, 2025
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When Should We Take The Next Step? Hi Rosie, my wife and I have been together since we were 14, have become curious about being swingers. We have recently been to a swinger club in Spain a few times, and we both find it very exciting. We have only had sex with each other without anyone else, but we think we want to explore further with a threesome or other couples. How do we know we are ready for that? Carlos- Madrid Hi Carlos, It's fantastic that you and your wife are exploring this new c...
Relationships

By March 10, 2025
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Different Types Of ENM Dynamics. We all have our own ideas as to what makes sex great! Sex is as unique as the person having it. What makes YOU tick is exclusive and reserved only for you. Yes, we may enjoy something similar to others or have shared fantasies and desires, however, the emotions, the sensations and the particular way that your body responds to sex is deeply personal. We may have wants and desires that we share, but only we know our true comfort levels. There is no right or wrong w...
Men's Health

By March 6, 2025
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Male Insecurities And Swinging- Help! I Can't Get Hard! Recently, I received a question from one of my male followers, who wanted to ask for my thoughts on male sexual performance and how I deal with a situation where a guy loses his erection during a swinger party. Could I share any insight into how men could deal with this and how it makes women feel? Was there a right or wrong way to deal with it? Any 'Erectile Disfunction Etiquette' that should be followed? First of all, it is important to...
General Education

By March 3, 2025
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This is why you are struggling to meet people on swinger dating sites You need to be an invested ‘online dater’. Any form of online dating, ENM or not, requires a level of investment if you actually want to meet someone. If you simply want to hook up fu&k around or are not sure what you are looking for, lol, then this article isn’t for you. Look away now. But if you want to meet someone or some people with genuine intentions, i.e. swinger couples, then you will want to continue reading. Somet...
Lifestyle

By February 24, 2025
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Here at Thiskindagirl, I want to bring you all the answers you are looking for. And how better to do this than a dedicated Swinger Lifestyle FAQ article? This article is a round-up of the most popular questions and topics that my followers send me on social media and by email. Get clued up and swinger smart before you get completely confused about the lifestyle! WHAT IS SWINGING? Swinging is a form of ethical non-monogamy, where sexual inhibitions are extended past the committed relationship ...
Clubs

By February 17, 2025
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We feel our faces don't fit in the swinger lifestyle. Hi Rosie, First of all, we really love your videos. They have helped us to explore the swingers' lifestyle. We have a quick question about swingers clubs. We recently tried to join Le Boudoir in London, but they came back with this response. ...
Open Relationship

By February 17, 2025
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Can A Relationship Be Open For Only One Person? The short answer is yes, but as with most things Non-Monogamy related, it isn’t as straightforward as that. Yes, a relationship can be open for only one person if you have a solid foundation to draw from and rules and boundaries that you follow. But unless you have honest conversation and understanding from both parties, this type of relationship won’t work. When I first started swinging, I was part of a couple, and my first experience and subse...
Clubs

By February 10, 2025
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First Time At A Swingers Club Several of my followers requested this article on Instagram. So, being your swinger lifestyle guru, I felt it only fitting that I rise to the occasion. Although I have written articles about visiting a club for the first time, swinger club etiquette and dos and don’ts, what I haven’t written about, and what many of you are curious about, is what it is like walking into a club for the first time? How do you find the location of a club? And what can you expect to f...
Lifestyle

By February 5, 2025
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What makes you an expert? But what makes you an expert? It's a fair question and one I've been asked a few times lately. The answer, like most things, is multifaceted. ...
Lifestyle

By February 3, 2025
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ARE SWINGER FRIENDS WITH BENEFITS TOO GOOD TO BE TRUE? We all know what friends with benefits are. I’m sure at some point in your life, you have had one, or have been one, or maybe you are living your best FWB life right now? But when it comes to swinging and swinger relationships, do FWB still exist? And if so, where do you find them? I mean, truth be told, it all sounds pretty perfect! A swinger couple who you can play with, without fear of emotions getting caught up or complications? Are sw...
Lifestyle

By January 31, 2025
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Ready to dive deeper into the world of ethical non-monogamy and connect with a like-minded community? The TKG Club is your all-access pass to everything ENM, hosted on CNM4US! It's the perfect place for you if: You're curious about any aspect of ENM, from cuckolding and swinging to exploring open relationships!  You're done with time-wasters and crave genuine connections!  ...
Lifestyle

By January 27, 2025
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Do we have to DO anything when swinging? One question I hear frequently and can certainly relate to is: Do we have to DO anything when swinging? I remember when I first got involved in the lifestyle, and one of my biggest fears was having to do things that I wasn’t comfortable doing. And later, when I became a single female swinger, again, I was worried that I would feel pressure from couples, especially, to play with them. I wanted to make a piece of content that offers you answers from two p...
Relationships

By January 24, 2025
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What Happens When A Couple Go From Monogamy to Ethical Non-Monogamy? Going from a previously monogamous relationship to a newly Ethically non-monogamous one is something that needs careful consideration, communication and compromise. When you are looking to explore Ethical Non-Monogamy, it can be hard to know where to begin and what might happen to your relationship. Very often the biggest question a couple has is ‘is this going to jeopardise our relationship? I understand what it is like, whi...
Relationships

By January 22, 2025
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What Is It Like Seeing Your Partner With Someone Else? For many of us, seeing our partner with someone else is the stuff of our nightmares. Watching as they kiss, touch, and, well, get it on with another person (usually of the opposite sex) is, for the majority of couples, the one thing they are absolutely terrified of. Or are they? Are there, instead, some couples who actively enjoy watching their partner with someone else? And do all couples feel the same about seeing their dear beloved in t...
Single Men

By January 20, 2025
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Why do some men have more success in Swinger Clubs? And no, it’s nothing physical! It’s got nothing to do with dick size, chest size, salary or what a man drives. Neither has it anything to do with how much he paid for his ticket, what clubs he has been to before or how many people he’s slept with. When it comes to why do some men have more success in Swinger Clubs? (and I hear this question a lot) in my experience, it boils down to a few factors, and none of them, as you have probably guessed,...
Aftercare

By January 17, 2025
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Being involved in the lifestyle certainly has its perks. These are juicy add-ons that no one has told you about. The little bonus’s that reconfirm that your decision to start swinging was the right one. You know what I’m talking about; The secret world you create within your existing relationship, where you experience compersion, honesty and total trust. The intimate environment where you revel in complete acceptance from your partner, husband or wife; they love you, know you, understand you and...
Podcast Feeds

By January 9, 2025
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  With no set genre the Free4allpod is what is says on the tin...a real Free4all. A mix of lighthearted chat, special features as well as some of those more challenging topics. Listener interaction is always welcome. So come listen and have a Free4all   https://feeds.buzzsprout.com/2082606.rss
Podcast Feeds

By January 9, 2025
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With no set genre the Free4allpod is what is says on the tin...a real Free4all. A mix of lighthearted chat, special features as well as some of those more challenging topics. Listener interaction is always welcome. So come listen and have a Free4all. Swinger lifestyle and non-monogamy coach Rosie-Kay joins me on the podcast to talk all things swinging lifestyle and her role as a relationship coach. Rosie shares some of her experiences of getting into the swinger lifestyle, living that lifestyl...
Books

By January 7, 2025
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Author: Lauren Hayse  See Swinging Lifestyle Coach For Better or Even Better 7 Lessons on Life & Love from a Non-Monogamist Discover the candid, transformative journey of a relationship coach navigating life and love outside traditional boundaries. In this insightful guide, readers are invited into a world where transparency, emotional honesty, and vulnerability shape relationships—both monogamous and non-monogamous. With a unique blend of humor, personal anecdotes, and deep wisdom, this boo...
Podcast Feeds

By December 29, 2024
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Welcome to an evolved "The Examined Lives" podcast!  What started as a deep dive into the drama of the The Secret Lives of Mormon Wives reality show has evolved into a bold exploration of modern love, non-monogamy, and its portrayal in mainstream media.  Join hosts Lauren, an ENM relationship coach and swinger, and Ben, an ex-LDS polyamorist, as they bring their unique perspectives to mainstream media’s portrayal of ethical non-monogamy. From dissecting TV shows to sharing their own insights an...
Using this Website

By December 25, 2024
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OnlyFans Models on CNM4US Everyone is welcome on CNM4US as long as they follow the Community Guidelines. CNM4US is about Education, Support, Titilation, and connection through community building.  Community Guidelines in a Nutshell You can post nude and erotic images and videos. Complete nudity is allowed. However images and videos cannot be sexually explicit. That means no intercourse/insertion, no oral sex, and no erect penises. All subjects must be clearly over the age of consent. Depictio...
Lifestyle

By December 20, 2024
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I'm A Swinger Lifestyle Expert, But I Don't Like The Word Swinging.   Recently, I received this question: Rosie, how come people still use the word swinger? What does it mean? Isn't it a bit, well, dated? Is there something more appropriate for 2024?   To which I replied with: 'You know, I don't even like the word Swinger; it doesn't resonate with me; you are right; it is a dated term.' And so here's the predicament, guys and girls; I'm a swinger lifetsyle expert who doesn't like the word sw...
Relationships

By December 18, 2024
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The Unexpected Pregnancy Hi Rosie, my partner and I have been swinging for a year now, and it has been amazing. But something insane happened recently – I found out I'm pregnant. The thing is, I'm not sure if the baby is my partner's or one of the guys we've been swinging with. My partner doesn't know yet, and I'm freaking out about what to do. Should I come clean to my partner and risk our relationship and our swinging lifestyle, or should I keep it to myself and hope the baby looks like him? ...
Open Relationship

By December 13, 2024
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What To Do If Your Partner Wants An Open Relationship   For many people on the receiving end of having the ‘I want to have an open relationship’ conversation, they have a thought process that sounds a little like this; ‘am I not enough, and does my partner not love me are they going to leave me?’ I want to reassure you that this immediate concern is entirely natural and normal, and I have been in both situations, so I know what it feels like. In this article, I’m going to shed some light on wh...
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